If you already sent your boyfriend a message this Monday morning, you’ve already won a little more of his sweet love. Now it’s time to send something for his afternoon too, right?
At this point in the day, he’s probably busy with work, school, or just handling life. And honestly, you just want to check in without overdoing it.
Below, you’ll find a list I put together myself. These messages are made for Monday afternoons, and they’re perfect if you just want to make him smile.
I’m the type who randomly texts hi or I miss your face for no reason. And seriously, those small messages actually mean a lot. They break the routine and remind him that someone out there really cares.
So whether you’re checking in, thinking about him, feeling a little flirty, or just sending love, you’re in the right place.
These messages are simple, cute, and easy to send, but they’ll still brighten his day.
Even a tiny personal touch can make it feel extra special.
Let’s get into it and make his Monday better. 💛
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When You Just Want to Check In
He’s probably in the middle of work, school, or just doing his thing. These are the kinds of messages that won’t interrupt his whole day but still remind him you’re here, thinking of him, and hoping his Monday’s going alright.
1. “Hey love, just checking in. How’s your day going so far?”
A classic. Simple, open, and gives him space to answer however he wants.
2. “Hope your Monday isn’t being too rude. Want me to send a meme or a virtual hug?”
Perfect if you want to keep it light but supportive. Shows you care without sounding formal.
3. “No big reason for this text. I just wanted to see how you’re doing right now.”
Use this when you don’t have a full convo in mind, just want to make sure he feels thought of.
4. “How are you holding up today? I know Mondays can feel like a lot.”
Great if he’s had a busy morning or a stressful start to the week.
5. “I’ve been thinking about you today. Hope you’ve had at least one thing that made you smile.”
This one’s soft, thoughtful, and works especially well after lunch when energy dips.
6. “Let me know if you need a quick distraction or just someone to talk to.”
Sweet and supportive. Good if he’s been quiet and you’re gently offering your presence.
7. “Just wanted to say hi and send some good energy your way.”
Use this when you want to check in without starting a long conversation.
8. “How’s my favorite human doing this afternoon?”
Cute and casual. Adds a little charm to a basic check-in.
9. “I miss you a tiny bit. Okay, a lot. Just wondering how you’re doing today.”
Adds a soft clingy touch without being too much.
10. “No pressure to reply fast. Just wanted you to know I was thinking of you.”
This one’s perfect if you know he’s busy but you still want to send some love his way.
When You’re Thinking About Him
It’s one of those afternoons where he keeps popping into your head and you just want him to know. These little messages are low-effort but full of care — perfect for making him smile in the middle of the day.
11. “I was just thinking about you and realized… wow, I really like having you in my life.”
A calm, steady message that’ll make him pause and smile.
12. “I saw someone who reminded me of you… but nope, you’re still the better version.”
Flirty and casual. Great if you want to make him feel good without being too serious.
13. “I keep thinking about that little thing you said the other day. It’s been stuck in my head all day.”
Use this when something specific reminded you of him and you want to bring it back up.
14. “You popped into my head again. Not complaining though.”
A cute and quick check-in that says you’re on my mind in the simplest way.
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15. “Just wanted to say I appreciate you. That’s all. Carry on, handsome.”
Short, sweet, and really easy to send at any time in the afternoon.
16. “You’ve been in my thoughts today, and honestly… I’m kind of loving that.”
If you’re feeling a little soft and want to lean into it without sounding too dramatic.
17. “Thinking about you makes Monday feel way less annoying.”
This one’s playful but still genuine. It’ll make him feel like the best part of your day.
18. “Every time I think about you, I get this little smile I can’t explain.”
Go with this one when you want him to feel special without needing a whole explanation.
19. “Hey, just wanted you to know you crossed my mind. That’s usually a good sign.”
A simple, calm way to check in and make him feel good about himself.
20. “I keep thinking about how lucky I am to call you mine. Just needed to say that.”
Perfect for a feel-good Monday message when you’re feeling a little extra grateful.
When You Want to Be Cute or Flirty
If your goal is to brighten his Monday and make him think about kissing you later… these are the messages. Sweet, teasing, and a little irresistible — just how he likes them.
21. “So when are you taking a break so I can flirt with you properly?”
Playful and direct. Great if you know he’s working and you want to mess with him a little.
22. “I’ve been thinking about your smile and now I can’t focus. Send help. Or just your face.”
Flirty and soft. Use this when you’re feeling clingy but still want to sound cute.
23. “Not trying to interrupt your Monday or anything… but I miss you. A lot.”
It’s lowkey clingy in the best way. I’d send this one if you want to make him feel wanted mid-day.
24. “I feel like I haven’t seen your face in forever. Fix that for me?”
Great for dropping in after a few hours without talking. Light pressure, zero guilt.
25. “You’re lucky I’m not near you right now. I’d be annoying, flirty, and all over you.”
Perfect when you want to be playful and remind him how much he actually loves your chaos.
26. “Not to brag, but I’d be the best distraction from your boring Monday.”
This one’s fun and confident. Send it when you want to grab his attention instantly.
27. “I was going to say something productive, but then I remembered how good you look.”
Flirty and unexpected. He’ll love the shift in tone and probably send something back fast.
28. “If you’re having a stressful Monday, just remember… I exist and I want to kiss your face.”
Cute and comforting. Great combo of emotional support and light flirting.
29. “I think I just broke my own concentration thinking about you. So now it’s your turn.”
This one’s flirty with a little challenge. Great if you want him to get playful too.
30. “Wanna ditch the rest of Monday and just hang out with me instead? Emotionally or physically. I’m not picky.”
Funny, bold, and just chaotic enough to make him laugh and feel loved.
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When You Just Want to Show Love
Sometimes you don’t need a reason to be kind. These messages are quiet reminders that you care, and that he means a lot to you — even in the middle of a random Monday.
31. “I hope you know how much I love being yours.”
Short, soft, and real. A nice midday reminder that he’s still your favorite person.
32. “You’re doing amazing, and I’m so proud of you. Just thought you should hear that today.”
This one hits when he’s tired or stuck in a routine. It makes him feel seen.
33. “Loving you has become my favorite part of every day.”
Use this when you’re in that sentimental mood but still want to keep it chill.
34. “You matter to me more than I probably say. So here’s me saying it today.”
Honest and gentle. A quiet reminder that he’s appreciated even when things are busy.
35. “Even when I’m not texting or calling, I’m still thinking about you.”
Perfect when you want to show love without needing a big conversation.
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36. “You don’t have to do anything special to be loved by me. Just being you is more than enough.”
I’d send this when he’s feeling off or doubting himself. It’s soft and reassuring.
37. “You make Mondays feel lighter just by existing.”
A sweet, simple way to let him know he has that calming effect on you.
38. “You’ve been on my mind today, and I just wanted to send you a little love.”
Great when you want to be affectionate without sounding overly serious.
39. “You really are one of the best things to ever happen to me.”
Big feelings in a short sentence. Perfect if he’s been needing some love lately.
40. “I’m so lucky I get to love you.”
A beautiful closing line that always lands right. No explanation needed.
Let Love Carry the Afternoon
As you can see, it doesn’t take much to make his day a little brighter. Just one of these Monday afternoon messages could turn a boring moment into something sweet and special.
If you’re still in the mood to send him more, I’ve got some other posts you’ll definitely love:
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Save your faves, add your touch, and just keep showing up with love in little ways. That’s what keeps it real. 🌿
