Let’s be honest—texting is an art, and when it comes to making a guy think about you nonstop, a little flirtation goes a long way. Whether you’re in a new relationship, keeping the spark alive, or just having fun, the right text can leave him smiling at his phone and counting down the minutes until he sees you again.
Lucky for you, I’ve put together a list of flirty texts designed to do exactly that. Scroll through, find your favorites, and don’t forget to bookmark this page—because trust me, you’ll want to come back for more. 😉
Flirty Texts designed to Make Him want you
Okay, girl! I know how handy a post like this can be (proud moment 😌). Below, you’ll find over 33 flirty messages to send that handsome guy if you want to keep him hooked and thinking about you nonstop. Oh, and do yourself a favor—bookmark this page because I’ll be updating it with even more fire texts. 😉
Now go work your magic, and good luck with your guy! Mwah! 💋
1. “I just caught myself smiling at my phone… I guess that’s what happens when I talk to someone this irresistible.”
This makes him feel special while making him wonder just how much you’re thinking about him.
2. “So, I have a problem. Every time I text you, I suddenly want to see you. What are we going to do about this?”
A bold and playful way to hint at meeting up without actually saying it.
3. “I don’t know if it’s your texts or your energy, but something about you is seriously addictive.”
A confident way to let him know that he’s on your mind… and you want more.
4. “I have a feeling that if we were in the same room right now, we wouldn’t be doing much talking.”
A little spicy but still leaves room for imagination. Let him wonder what you mean.
5. “I was going to behave tonight, but then you texted me… so now, all bets are off.”
Flirty, teasing, and suggests that talking to him brings out your playful side.
6. “Stop being so cute. It’s seriously distracting, and I have things to do… or at least, I did before you messaged me.”
A great way to make him feel attractive while showing that he’s totally disrupting your focus—in the best way.
7. “It’s actually unfair that I can’t reach through this phone and kiss you right now.”
This makes him wish he could be with you while keeping the mood romantic and flirty.
8. “I have this crazy idea that you should stop whatever you’re doing and come kiss me. Thoughts?”
This is a fun and confident way to put the idea of kissing in his head, even if you’re not physically together.
9. “If we were together right now, what do you think would happen? Be honest.”
This puts the ball in his court and forces him to think about being with you. You’re making him work for it, which he’ll love.
10. “I was going to sleep, but then I started thinking about you… and now I’m definitely not tired anymore.”
A subtle way to make him wonder what exactly you’re thinking about, keeping him intrigued and wanting more.
11. “I have a confession. Every time I see your name pop up on my phone, I get a little rush of excitement.”
This makes him feel special while reinforcing that he has that effect on you.
12. “It’s kind of unfair that you get to be so attractive and have such a great personality. I’m trying to keep it together, but you’re making it really difficult.”
A playful way to tell him that he’s the full package while making him feel wanted.
13. “So I just tried to focus on something that isn’t you… and surprise, I failed.”
This makes it clear that he’s the only thing on your mind, and let’s be honest, guys love feeling like they have that kind of effect.
14. “I’m not saying I need a distraction right now, but if you wanted to send me something cute… I wouldn’t complain.”
This is flirty but subtle—it’s basically a challenge for him to flirt back or send a cute picture. Let’s see if he takes the bait.
15. “I should be sleeping, but now I’m stuck wondering what it would feel like to have your arms around me right now.”
This one is perfect for nighttime texting. It gets him thinking about you, with him, and suddenly, sleep is the last thing on his mind.
16. “Be honest. Are you this charming with everyone or do I get VIP treatment?”
This one is playful and makes him want to tell you that yes, you’re special. Plus, it gives him the chance to flirt back.
17. “I just realized something. I smile way too much when I text you. It’s a problem and I blame you.”
Guys love knowing they have an effect on you. This makes him feel like he’s winning while keeping things light and fun.
18. “If I were with you right now, what’s the first thing you’d do? And keep it interesting.”
A direct but playful way to get him thinking about you two together. And let’s be real, his answer will probably make you both smile.
19. “I swear, the more I talk to you, the more I realize that my self-control is not as strong as I thought.”
A subtle way to tell him he’s driving you crazy in the best way. It’s confident, flirty, and lets him know you want him.
20. “I don’t know if it’s your messages or you in general, but something about this is seriously addicting.”
A perfect way to make him feel like he’s got you hooked without sounding too eager. Guys love being someone you can’t resist.
21. “What are you up to? And why isn’t the answer ‘thinking about me’?”
A playful way to put yourself on his mind while giving him a chance to flirt back. He’ll probably laugh and then admit that yes, he’s totally thinking about you.
23. “I just thought of something very interesting… but I think I’ll let you wonder about it for a little while.”
This is the ultimate teasing text. You’re practically forcing him to ask what you’re thinking. And whatever it is, it’ll keep the flirting going.
24. “So… at what point do we admit that this texting thing isn’t enough and actually do something about it?”
This subtly pushes the idea of moving from texting to seeing each other. If he’s been hesitating, this definitely puts it on his mind.
25. “I have a theory. The more I text you, the more I want to see you. Only one way to test if I’m right…”
A sneaky and smart way to get him thinking about making plans without outright asking.
26. “I was going to play hard to get, but then I realized… I really don’t want
This makes him feel like he’s so irresistible that you can’t even pretend to resist him. Huge confidence boost.
27. “I have to admit… I didn’t expect to like you this much. But here we are.”
This is direct but not overwhelming. It makes him feel wanted while leaving just enough mystery to keep him hooked.
28. “If I say I miss you, do I get to see you sooner? Asking for a friend. (Okay, fine, it’s me.)”
This is adorably flirty while making it clear that you want to see him. Bonus points if he immediately makes a plan to see you.
29. “If I told you I can still feel your arms around me even when you’re not here… would that be cute or just a little unfair?”
This creates intimacy and makes him wish he was with you in that exact moment.
30. “I was going to wait for you to text first, but then I thought… why deny you the pleasure of talking to me sooner?”
A sassy and confident way to make him smile while letting him know you wanted to text him.
31. “I think I just caught myself blushing… and you weren’t even here. Care to explain yourself?”
This one makes him instantly curious. He’ll definitely want to know what he did to make you blush.
32. “If you were here right now, I have a feeling we wouldn’t be doing much talking.”
A flirty and suggestive way to keep him wondering about what exactly you mean. Let his imagination do the work.
33. “So tell me, how does it feel to know that someone as cute as me is thinking about you right now?”
This adds just the right amount of playful teasing, making him feel lucky that you’re giving him attention.
34. “I was about to watch a movie, but now I’m just sitting here wishing I could steal all your popcorn instead.”
A fun way to suggest that you’d rather be with him, without being overly serious. Plus, now he’s picturing a cozy night with you.
35. “You know what’s unfair? I can’t stop thinking about your smile, and I don’t even get to see it right now.”
This makes him wish he was in front of you just so he could flash that smile you love so much.
36. “If I were there with you right now, what’s the first thing you’d do? And before you say ‘hug you’… get a little more creative.”
This one forces him to think about being close to you in a playful, flirty way. His answer will probably make both of you smile.
Final Thoughts: Keep Him Hooked with the Perfect Flirty Texts
Flirty texting is an art, and now you’ve got over 33 playful, sassy, and irresistible messages to keep him thinking about you nonstop. Whether you’re keeping things light, making him laugh, or adding just the right amount of mystery, the key is confidence and fun. Don’t overthink it—just hit send and let the sparks fly!
And hey, don’t forget to bookmark this page because I’ll be updating it with even more flirty gems. 😉
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Now go have fun making him obsessed with your texts! 💋
