Okay girl, let’s be real—when it comes to dating, a little mystery and playful confidence go a long way. If you want him to stop scrolling, sit up, and start chasing you, then these flirty texts are exactly what you need. They’re designed to spark intrigue, tease just enough, and make him feel like he has to earn your attention.
Below, you’ll find my favorite flirty texts that subtly shift the dynamic and put him in pursuit mode. Pick your favorites, send them at the right moment, and watch him work for your attention. 😉
Flirty Texts That Make Him Chase You
Before we dive in, let me give you a little tip—bookmark this page because I’ll be adding even more fire texts to keep him hooked. 😉 Now, let’s get to the fun part! I’ve put together 9+ flirty messages that will have him thinking about you nonstop.
So go ahead, pick your favorite, send it with a little attitude, and watch him start chasing you. 💃🔥
1. “I love a man who knows what he wants… so tell me, do you?”
This message is a confidence test. It subtly challenges him to step up and prove he’s serious about you. Men are naturally wired to pursue what they feel might slip away, and this kind of question puts him in chase mode because he now feels like he needs to win you over.
2. “I was just thinking about something funny… but I’ll tell you later. Let’s see if you remember to ask me.”
This is an intrigue hook. It makes him wonder what you were thinking, and if he doesn’t follow up, he risks missing out on something interesting. By making him chase the conversation, you subtly shift the dynamic so that he’s the one pursuing your attention.
3. “I don’t usually text first, but I figured you deserved a little reward for being cute.”
This makes him feel special but also makes it clear that your attention is something to be earned. The moment he realizes you don’t always reach out first, he’ll feel a subtle pressure to be the one putting in the effort next time.
4. “You seem like the kind of guy who could totally impress me… but I guess we’ll see.”
This is a subtle challenge. It strokes his ego just enough to keep him hooked, but also makes him work to prove he’s worthy of your attention. Men love the thrill of impressing someone they like, and this message plays into that instinct perfectly.
5. “You know, I was planning to be super productive today, but then I got distracted. Not saying it’s your fault, but… yeah, it’s kind of your fault.”
This makes him feel important—like he has a strong effect on you—but it doesn’t make you seem too eager. Instead, it makes him feel wanted in a way that’s playful and fun, which will make him want to keep your attention.
6. “I feel like you have a little bit of mystery to you… and I love a good mystery.”
This is powerful because it shifts the dynamic. Now, you’re the one exploring his depth, and people love feeling like they have layers to uncover. He’ll naturally want to pull you in and make you even more curious about him.
7. “I don’t know if you deserve my best flirting yet… but if you keep this up, you might just find out.”
This message tells him you’re interested but not sold yet, and that makes him want to prove himself. People chase what feel
s just out of reach, and this message keeps you slightly unattainable in the best way possible.
8. “So tell me, what’s something interesting about you that I won’t find out just by texting?”
This instantly makes the conversation deeper while putting him in the position of having to impress you. It also suggests that texting isn’t enough—which plants the idea of moving things into real life.
9. “I have a feeling you’re fun to be around. Should I be right, or should I lower my expectations?”
This is flirty pressure. It puts him in the position of wanting to impress you, and no guy wants to say, “Yeah, I’m boring.” Instead, he’ll chase you by trying to prove that he is fun and exciting.
10. “I have a feeling you’re trouble… but I kind of like trouble.”
This one plays with forbidden attraction. It makes him wonder, “What does she mean? Does she think I’m bad? Is she into it?” It also adds a bit of mystery and teasing—making him want to prove that he’s the right kind of trouble for you.
11. “I can’t decide if I should keep talking to you or make you work for my attention a little more… what do you think?”
This is powerful because it gives him the responsibility of keeping you engaged. You’re subtly putting him in a position where he has to prove that he deserves your time. If he’s truly interested, he’ll definitely step up his game.
12. “You seem like the type of guy who could totally handle me… or am I giving you too much credit?”
This challenges his confidence in the best way. No guy wants to admit that he can’t handle you, so now he’s going to prove that he can. This puts you in control while making him chase that validation from you.
Keep Him Hooked & Coming Back for More
And there you have it—flirty texts that will make him chase you and keep you on his mind 24/7. 💃 Confidence, mystery, and a little teasing go a long way, so use these wisely and have fun with it!
Oh, and don’t forget—bookmark this page because I’ll be updating it with even more irresistible texts. In the meantime, check out these other flirty and playful messages to keep the spark alive:
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Now go ahead and make him chase you. 😉🔥
